Notes written as I listened to interview with Fran Fisher  as part of the Essence of Mastery Summit.

Take attention off doing and shift to being  – 5 Qualities of being to serve ( a tool)

Being is a conscious choice – We must be true to our own nature – Being your essential self unleashes your authentic personal power as a human being and as a masterful coach.

Your essential nature is the unalterable truth of your being, regardless of the circumstances you face. Essence is true substance a unified field of all possibilities

Discover our greatness….

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MCC coaching is the space of unconditional love where learning, growth and transformation naturally occur. Coaching is profound change – Essence of coaching is space.

Being leads the doing! We be the space for my client’s greatness…

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Not being expert – Essential! “not about me” Our ego does not need feeding.

it is not about tools or techniques – it is about who we are being.

Vision > Purpose > Values are foundational

Who do I choose to be and be aware of triggers / hooks in order to self manage > Be curious as  whole body listener.

As a coach – Notice that client is not prepared to do heavy listening – Coach does not solve on behalf of client – For the coach: Explore level of awareness of client’s energy. Coach & client partner of two experts: Client of Content and coach of context (process).

Who we are being affects the quality of our coaching – This is our responsibility

>>>  Job of coach evoke awareness, so that  the client can learn about themself and grow new capacities for self awareness.

Core qualities of being – What are they? Reflect to uncover – Reframe on purpose/

Essence of purpose…I am….. to be true to me…..Living life without effort

Purpose – What empowers me to be who I am at my core essence.

What is my choice? What am I tolerating?

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Qualities of being – Wrote on hand with pen

Fran’s  – Transparency, Authenticity, Playfulness, Lightening up, containmentm > STRETCHES!

Kept private, but used every day. Who am I choosing to be? Into body, heart and being – More focused approach

 

1 – Discover essential self (journey – all tools are out there) Who am I?

2 – Make empowering choices daily that align with purpose

3 – Maintain daily practices that empower your best

4 – Maintain supportive structures (diary/people/clipboard of tracking, maintain empowering relationships)

5 – Live heart centred and love who you are being (go to compassion for self and others!)

Most of all – Masterful coaching starts in our inner being – Could take years to go

Love self on the journey (it could take a while) – We are all spiritual beings having a human experience.

Where are we holding fear? If we are in fear whom are we being!

Key takeaways:

1) Job of coach evoke awareness, so that  the client can learn about them-self and grow new capacities for self awareness.

2) It is not about tools or techniques – it is about who we are being.

3) Qualities of being as an exercise in reflection and as a reminder.

 

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