Notes written as I listened to interview with Fran Fisher as part of the Essence of Mastery Summit.
Take attention off doing and shift to being – 5 Qualities of being to serve ( a tool)
Being is a conscious choice – We must be true to our own nature – Being your essential self unleashes your authentic personal power as a human being and as a masterful coach.
Your essential nature is the unalterable truth of your being, regardless of the circumstances you face. Essence is true substance a unified field of all possibilities
Discover our greatness….
MCC coaching is the space of unconditional love where learning, growth and transformation naturally occur. Coaching is profound change – Essence of coaching is space.
Being leads the doing! We be the space for my client’s greatness…
Not being expert – Essential! “not about me” Our ego does not need feeding.
it is not about tools or techniques – it is about who we are being.
Vision > Purpose > Values are foundational
Who do I choose to be and be aware of triggers / hooks in order to self manage > Be curious as whole body listener.
As a coach – Notice that client is not prepared to do heavy listening – Coach does not solve on behalf of client – For the coach: Explore level of awareness of client’s energy. Coach & client partner of two experts: Client of Content and coach of context (process).
Who we are being affects the quality of our coaching – This is our responsibility
>>> Job of coach evoke awareness, so that the client can learn about themself and grow new capacities for self awareness.
Core qualities of being – What are they? Reflect to uncover – Reframe on purpose/
Essence of purpose…I am….. to be true to me…..Living life without effort
Purpose – What empowers me to be who I am at my core essence.
What is my choice? What am I tolerating?
Qualities of being – Wrote on hand with pen
Fran’s – Transparency, Authenticity, Playfulness, Lightening up, containmentm > STRETCHES!
Kept private, but used every day. Who am I choosing to be? Into body, heart and being – More focused approach
1 – Discover essential self (journey – all tools are out there) Who am I?
2 – Make empowering choices daily that align with purpose
3 – Maintain daily practices that empower your best
4 – Maintain supportive structures (diary/people/clipboard of tracking, maintain empowering relationships)
5 – Live heart centred and love who you are being (go to compassion for self and others!)
Most of all – Masterful coaching starts in our inner being – Could take years to go
Love self on the journey (it could take a while) – We are all spiritual beings having a human experience.
Where are we holding fear? If we are in fear whom are we being!
Key takeaways:
1) Job of coach evoke awareness, so that the client can learn about them-self and grow new capacities for self awareness.
2) It is not about tools or techniques – it is about who we are being.
3) Qualities of being as an exercise in reflection and as a reminder.
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