How do I catch the thinking patterns that are quietly skewing my decisions?
Your first interpretation of a stalled project, an unanswered email or a difficult meeting rarely feels like a guess. It feels like fact, and that is exactly what makes it hard to catch before it starts shaping what you notice, how you feel and what you do next. This piece separates what actually happened from what you have added through interpretation, names the thinking patterns, catastrophising, mind reading, all-or-nothing thinking and selective attention among them, that recur most often under pressure, and shows how an interpretation you act on can quietly become the evidence you later use to confirm it. Five practical exercises follow, from replaying a recent decision to building your own thinking-pattern log, each designed to give you somewhere to pause and check a judgement before it drives your next move.















































