Preparing time and space: Creating the container for effective group work

By |2025-11-26T21:03:51+00:00November 26, 2025|Categories: IAF core competencies for faciliitation|

Effective facilitation begins long before the conversation starts. IAF Core Competency B2 encourages facilitators to prepare time and space with intention so that people can think clearly, contribute openly and work together with confidence. This article explores how physical space, timing and atmosphere quietly shape group behaviour and offers practical reflections, examples and questions to help facilitators create environments that support healthy, meaningful dialogue.

Start With Why Is a Leadership Myth: What Leaders Should Do Instead

By |2025-11-26T19:14:20+00:00November 26, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: |

Many leaders rely on the idea of “starting with why”, but this approach often oversimplifies how commitment forms. This article explains why purpose is not the starting point of leadership and shows how conversation, connection, and shared ownership build genuine engagement.

Selecting clear methods and processes: Laying the foundations for effective group work

By |2025-11-25T17:10:00+00:00November 25, 2025|Categories: IAF core competencies for faciliitation|

IAF Core Competency B1 focuses on selecting methods and processes that fit the people, the purpose and the moment. This article explores how facilitators can foster open participation across cultures and identities, support varied learning and thinking styles, and choose processes that lead to high-quality, usable outcomes. With practical reflections and guiding questions, it offers a grounded approach to designing group work that is both inclusive and effective.

The leadership myth that transformation programmes save organisations

By |2025-11-24T08:34:50+00:00November 24, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: |

Many leaders still believe that a transformation programme can save an organisation, yet most large scale change efforts fail because they treat complex systems as if they can be controlled through planning. This article exposes the leadership myth at the heart of transformation, explains why organisations remain drawn to big programmes, and shows what research on complex adaptive systems reveals about how change really happens. It offers practical guidance for leaders who want to create real, sustainable transformation through learning, interaction, and shaped conditions rather than rigid roadmap

Why the leadership myth that a good plan guarantees successful change still misleads

By |2025-11-23T20:32:41+00:00November 23, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: |

Many leaders still believe that a good plan guarantees successful change. This view, inherited from a more predictable era, persists in organisations that value control and certainty. Yet research from thinkers such as Kotter, Stacey, and Snowden shows that in complex environments, outcomes emerge through adaptation, not execution. This article explores why the myth endures, the costs of over-planning, and the practices that help leaders lead through learning rather than prediction.

Managing multi-session work: Holding the arc of the facilitation journey

By |2025-11-23T10:28:30+00:00November 23, 2025|Categories: IAF core competencies for faciliitation|

Multi-session facilitation asks more of us than running a sequence of workshops. It requires holding the arc of the work, sustaining partnership with the client and designing a journey that can adapt as people learn. This article explores IAF Core Competency A3 and offers practical reflections, examples and questions to help facilitators manage long-form engagements with clarity and care.

Designing for what matters: Creating processes that support meaningful facilitation

By |2025-11-22T18:20:57+00:00November 22, 2025|Categories: IAF core competencies for faciliitation|

Effective facilitation begins with a design that fits the people, the purpose and the culture. IAF Core Competency A2 Design and Customise Applications invites us to look beneath the presenting problem, understand the organisational environment and create processes that help groups work honestly and constructively. This article explores the four strands of thoughtful design, supported by practical reflections, examples and questions that help facilitators craft sessions with clarity and care.

Working in partnership: The foundation of effective facilitation

By |2025-11-22T09:31:10+00:00November 21, 2025|Categories: IAF core competencies for faciliitation|

Effective facilitation begins long before a group gathers. IAF Core Competency A1 Develop Working Partnerships, invites us to build partnerships rooted in trust, clarity, and shared responsibility. This article explores the three strands of strong working partnerships, why they matter, and what happens when they are overlooked. With reflective questions and practical guidance, it offers a steady foundation for anyone designing conversations that help people think and work well together.

The leadership myth that culture is ‘soft stuff’: why this belief harms performance

By |2025-11-20T14:40:26+00:00November 20, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: |

Many leaders still describe culture as “soft stuff”, something intangible that sits alongside the real work of strategy, planning, and execution. Yet decades of organisational research show the opposite: culture is a powerful driver of behaviour, performance, and long term results. When leaders overlook it, they miss the hidden forces shaping how decisions are made, how people collaborate, and how strategy is interpreted. This article challenges the leadership myth that culture is soft, explores why the belief persists, and shows how culture functions as strategic infrastructure rather than atmosphere. It also offers reflective questions to help leaders bring culture back to the centre of their thinking.

Debunking the leadership myth that people do not like change

By |2025-11-19T18:55:20+00:00November 19, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: |

The belief that people dislike change is one of leadership’s most persistent myths. In practice, people embrace change when it is meaningful, fair, and well supported. What they resist is loss, confusion, or inconsistency. This article unpacks the research, explores examples from organisations, and offers practical questions to help leaders design change that people can actually commit to.

How can I get more accountability in my team?

By |2025-11-18T21:23:07+00:00November 18, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: |

Accountability is not something you force. It is something people choose when clarity and ownership are strong. This article introduces a simple two by two model that shows the four accountability zones and how leaders can rebuild clarity, strengthen ownership, and create a culture where people follow through because they want to.

How to craft a compelling business case: a leadership guide

By |2025-11-17T22:03:03+00:00November 17, 2025|Categories: Leadership|

A business case is more than a technical document. It is a moment of leadership that creates clarity, builds trust, and earns genuine commitment. This guide explores practical principles for shaping a compelling business case that people believe in and want to support.

Why the leadership myth that leaders must have all the answers still misleads

By |2025-11-17T21:01:44+00:00November 15, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: |

Many leaders still inherit the idea that they must have all the answers. It is a belief shaped by the industrial age, reinforced by organisational culture, and sustained by our collective discomfort with uncertainty. Yet research from thinkers such as Heifetz, Senge, and Edmondson shows that knowing is not the work of leadership. The real task is to create the conditions where people can think, learn, and sense what the system needs next. This article explores why the myth endures, the cost of pretending to know, and the practices that help leaders move from answer giver to steward of shared insight.

Why the leadership myth “If You Can’t Measure It, You Can’t Manage It” misses the point

By |2025-11-14T20:23:35+00:00November 14, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: |

“If you can’t measure it, you can’t manage it” is one of the most persistent leadership myths. Often attributed to Peter Drucker, it distorts his thinking. This essay explores why measurement brings comfort but not always insight, and why true leadership begins where data ends.

What gets measured gets managed: why leadership needs more than metrics

By |2025-11-13T18:47:58+00:00November 13, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: |

“What gets measured gets managed” is one of leadership’s most quoted lines, often credited to Peter Drucker. Yet the phrase hides a deeper truth. Measurement can guide or distort, depending on intent. When leaders use data to learn rather than to control, numbers become tools for meaning. This article explores how to build a healthier relationship with metrics in complex organisations.

People don’t leave jobs; they leave managers and other half-truths about why people quit

By |2025-11-12T17:27:34+00:00November 12, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: |

The phrase “people don’t leave jobs; they leave managers” feels true, but it tells only part of the story. This article unpacks the evidence behind the myth, revealing how turnover reflects not just bad bosses but broken systems, poor design, and misaligned purpose. Explore what really drives people to stay, to leave, and to lead better.

Culture eats strategy for breakfast: What the famous quote gets wrong (and right)

By |2025-11-12T19:39:45+00:00November 11, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: |

"Culture eats strategy for breakfast” is one of the most quoted, and misquoted, lines in business. Peter Drucker never said it, yet it endures because it feels true. This essay explores where the phrase came from, what research really shows about culture and strategy, and why effective leaders treat them not as rivals but as partners in shaping organisational success

How to get more value from executive coaching: 10 Practices that create real change

By |2025-11-10T14:47:42+00:00November 10, 2025|Categories: Executive Coaching|

Coaching becomes powerful when the coachee treats it as an active craft, not a passive conversation. These are the ten practices that consistently turn coaching into real change in work, behaviour, and leadership.

Starting my volunteering journey with Catchafire – Patagonia Action Works

By |2025-11-06T16:52:31+00:00November 6, 2025|Categories: Complexity & Systems thinking, Executive Coaching|

I have joined Patagonia Action Works (Catchafire) as a volunteer and will be offering executive coaching and leadership support to organisations working for environmental impact. This is a way of giving back through my craft, helping mission driven groups clarify thinking, strengthen decisions, and make progress on what matters.

How can I mentor a new strategic contributor during their first 100 days?

By |2025-11-06T17:43:20+00:00November 6, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|

Being asked to mentor a new contributor is not a small task. Their first 100 days shape how they see the organisation, how they frame problems, and how they show up in the work. This article offers a practical, evidence-based mentoring frame to help contributors become pattern spotters, insight generators, and partners in strategic thinking.

The stress management realm of emotional intelligence (EQ-i)

By |2025-11-05T19:30:17+00:00November 5, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|

In the EQ-i model, stress management is not about eliminating pressure. It is the art of staying steady while conditions intensify. This realm includes stress tolerance, flexibility, and optimism. Together they describe how leaders preserve choice, clarity, and direction under load.

Optimism: How to strengthen constructive interpretation under pressure (EQ-i)

By |2025-11-21T08:33:40+00:00November 5, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|

Modern leadership involves exposure to continuous strain. Priorities shift, expectations escalate, and results are scrutinised in real time. In this climate it is easy for the emotional system to tilt towards threat interpretation. Optimism is not cheerfulness or naïve positive thinking. It is the ability to frame difficulty in a way that protects the sense of movement, meaning and capacity. [...]

Leading in complexity: How pilots, probes, and experiments help organisations learn their way forward

By |2025-11-03T11:47:20+00:00November 2, 2025|Categories: Complexity & Systems thinking, Leadership|Tags: |

In a world of volatility and uncertainty, traditional planning falls short. This article explores how pilots, probes, and experiments help leaders navigate complexity, build resilience, and foster curiosity. Learn practical ways to turn uncertainty into a learning advantage through small, safe-to-fail actions that reveal what truly works.

Stress tolerance: how to stay steady when pressure is rising (EQ-i)

By |2025-11-21T08:41:08+00:00November 2, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|

Stress in leadership is constant, not occasional. In the EQ-i, stress tolerance reflects the capacity to stay grounded, clear, and intentional while activation is rising. This piece explores why stress tolerance matters within the EQ-i model and introduces practical practices leaders can use before, during, and after pressure to preserve clarity, composure, and effectiveness.

What should I do when someone on my team cries repeatedly at work?

By |2025-11-01T13:29:33+00:00November 1, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|

Crying at work is far more common than we think. The science shows tears are not disruption. They are data about capacity, load and clarity. Instead of shutting tears down, leaders can use them as information to understand patterns, adjust expectations and support people intelligently. This article explores what research tells us and how to respond in a grounded, human way.

How can I get my team aligned and more focused? (4DX Methodology)

By |2025-10-31T16:27:45+00:00October 31, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: |

Most teams struggle not from lack of effort but from scattered attention. The Four Disciplines of Execution (4DX) offer a simple, proven way to focus on what matters most, act with purpose, and sustain momentum through shared accountability.

I’m burnt out — What can I do to reclaim my energy and focus as a leader?

By |2025-10-30T14:49:47+00:00October 30, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|

Feeling drained, distracted, or disengaged? Psychologist Christina Maslach’s research shows that burnout stems from six key mismatches between people and their work: workload, control, reward, community, fairness, and values. Drawing on various studies this guide applies Maslach’s framework to leadership today, offering practical, research-based ways to restore energy, purpose, and balance before burnout takes hold.

Flexibility: Adapting your emotions, thinking and behaviour to changing realities (EQ-i)

By |2025-11-21T08:37:54+00:00October 29, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|

Flexibility is the capacity to adapt thought, emotion, and behaviour without losing direction. This article explores eight practical exercises that help leaders stay calm under change, shift perspective, and remain open when plans evolve. By practising flexibility, you transform uncertainty into insight and change into growth.

The decision making realm of emotional intelligence

By |2025-10-29T11:03:53+00:00October 29, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|

The decision-making realm is where emotion and reason meet to shape our choices. It is not about removing feeling but refining it into discernment. Through problem-solving we learn to stay with complexity until clarity emerges. Reality-testing keeps us grounded in what is true rather than what we wish to be true. Impulse control gives us the space to act with intention rather than reaction. When these capacities align, decision-making becomes an act of stewardship, guiding us to respond with wisdom, care, and courage.

Impulse control: Managing reactions under pressure (EQ-i)

By |2025-11-21T09:00:43+00:00October 28, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|

Impulse control is the capacity to stay calm and deliberate under stress. This page explores how leaders can pause before reacting, reframe urgency, and create rituals that reset emotional control after mistakes.

Reality testing: How to see clearly and decide wisely

By |2025-11-21T09:32:54+00:00October 28, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|

In the noise of modern leadership, it is easy to mistake confidence for clarity. The faster decisions are made, the more tempting it becomes to rely on instinct, assumption, or emotion rather than evidence. Reality testing is the emotional intelligence skill that keeps perception honest. It is the disciplined capacity to see situations as they are, not as you hope [...]

Problem solving: How to think clearly and act wisely under pressure

By |2025-11-21T09:17:36+00:00October 27, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|

Learn how to strengthen your problem-solving skills through six emotionally intelligent practices. Discover how to balance logic and emotion, make clear decisions under pressure, and turn complex challenges into opportunities for learning and trust.

How can I get change to stick? (BJ Fogg’s B=MAP)

By |2025-10-27T16:06:54+00:00October 26, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|

Making Change Stick explores why most change efforts fade and how to design behaviour that lasts. Drawing on BJ Fogg’s B = MAP model: Motivation, Ability, and Prompt. It shows that sustainable transformation depends less on willpower and more on thoughtful design. Through practical insights and examples, it invites leaders to make the right behaviours easy, meaningful, and natural. Change sticks when we stop pushing harder and start shaping conditions where people can succeed.

The interpersonal realm of emotional intelligence

By |2025-11-07T20:06:31+00:00October 25, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|

The interpersonal realm of emotional intelligence is where self-awareness meets connection. It includes the capacities of interpersonal relationships, empathy, and social responsibility, the foundation for trust, compassion, and collaboration. When we build authentic relationships, understand others deeply, and act with care for the greater whole, we transform emotional insight into meaningful connection.

Empathy: How to understand others and strengthen connection

By |2025-11-24T10:10:52+00:00October 24, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|

Empathy is the foundation of trust and understanding. This guide explores how to strengthen your capacity to recognise and respond to others’ emotions with care and accuracy. Includes six practical exercises to cultivate empathy in daily interactions.

Social Responsibility: How to act for the common good with integrity and care

By |2025-11-24T10:28:14+00:00October 24, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|

Social responsibility sits at the heart of emotionally intelligent leadership. This guide explores how to act with awareness of others, contribute meaningfully to teams and communities, and balance personal goals with collective good. Includes six practical exercises to strengthen empathy, fairness, and shared purpose.

Interpersonal Relationships: How to build trust and connection that endures

By |2025-11-24T10:28:31+00:00October 19, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|

Interpersonal relationships are the foundation of emotional intelligence. This EQ-i guide shows how to build trust, connection, and collaboration that endure. Through six evidence-based practices, learn how to strengthen relationships and create a culture of mutual respect and belonging.

How can I get better as a leader at receiving feedback? (RADAR process)

By |2025-10-19T10:59:29+01:00October 19, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: |

Receiving feedback is one of the hardest skills for any leader to master. As an executive coach, I’ve seen how defensiveness can block growth and trust. The RADAR process: Repeat, Ask, Discuss, Align, Reflect, offers a practical way to stay open, calm, and constructive. This article explores how each step transforms feedback from criticism into connection, helping leaders build stronger relationships, deepen self-awareness, and turn difficult conversations into opportunities for real progress.

How to make team charters work: eight shifts that build alignment and trust

By |2025-10-19T10:08:23+01:00October 18, 2025|Categories: Leadership|

Most teams build charters to align around purpose and values, yet the document often fades after the workshop. These eight practical shifts show how to create a living team charter that strengthens trust, clarity, and collaboration.

How do I lead when people lack confidence?

By |2025-10-16T17:03:22+01:00October 16, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|

Confidence does not appear on command; it grows from evidence, belonging, and rhythm. When people doubt their capability, leaders can help them rebuild belief through intentional design. This piece explores six practices grounded in behavioural science and everyday leadership experience. A practical, human answer to the question: How do I lead when people lack confidence?

Five questions that change everything – John Scherer – Book summary

By |2025-10-25T11:07:55+01:00October 15, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: |

John Scherer’s Five Questions That Change Everything is a guide to authentic leadership and self-discovery. By asking five simple but profound questions: What confronts me? What am I bringing? What runs me? What calls me? What will unleash me? He shows how everyday challenges become opportunities for growth and purpose.

How do I decide when both options seem right? (Managing polarities)

By |2025-11-02T11:59:00+00:00October 14, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , |

Most leadership challenges are not about choosing between right and wrong, but between two versions of right. This article explores how to recognise and manage those recurring tensions, known as polarities, so that leaders can balance control and trust, stability and change, without losing coherence.

How can I tell what kind of problem I’m really facing, and lead accordingly? (Cynefin framework)

By |2025-10-12T19:13:14+01:00October 12, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , |

How can you tell what kind of problem you’re really facing and lead accordingly? Using the Cynefin Framework, this article explores how leaders make sense of complexity, adapt their approach across five domains, and find clarity amid uncertainty. A practical guide to leading with awareness, experimentation, and collective sensemaking.

How can I stay calm under pressure? Stop, Breathe, Refocus, Choose

By |2025-10-12T00:24:04+01:00October 11, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: |

When pressure rises, most of us speed up. We act before we think. The simple sequence Stop, Breathe, Refocus, Choose helps leaders reclaim presence in the moment, quiet the body’s stress response, and choose composure over reaction. A practical guide to staying calm under pressure.

The Circle of Control: Leadership, choice, and the discipline of attention

By |2025-10-10T13:58:01+01:00October 10, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: |

Leadership maturity begins where control ends. The Circle of Control reminds us that what defines us is not what happens, but how we meet what happens. This piece explores the mindset that turns reaction into responsibility.

The paradox of performance: Why senior leaders need space, not speed

By |2025-10-08T22:44:25+01:00October 8, 2025|Categories: Executive Coaching|Tags: , |

In today’s leadership culture, speed often masquerades as competence. This article explores why constant urgency narrows judgement and how senior leaders can restore reflection, clarity and performance through simple disciplines, including executive coaching. Slowing down may be the most strategic move a leader can make.

E + R = O: The leadership mindset that separates reaction from response

By |2025-10-08T23:07:58+01:00October 8, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: |

Discover how great leaders use the E + R = O formula: Event plus Response equals Outcome, to stay composed, intentional, and effective under pressure. Learn practical ways to lead with awareness, shape outcomes through choice, and build a culture of conscious leadership grounded in self-awareness and reflection.

How can I find more meaning in my leadership role? (The practice of job crafting)

By |2025-10-07T20:27:06+01:00October 7, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , |

Many leaders reach a point where their work feels effective but empty. This article explores how job crafting helps leaders rediscover purpose by reshaping what they do, who they connect with, and how they interpret their work, drawing on research from Wrzesniewski and Dutton, Gallup, McKinsey, and Deloitte.

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