The CEDAR Feedback Model: A Framework for Difficult Conversations

By |2026-01-11T19:23:11+00:00January 7, 2026|Categories: Feedback|Tags: , , , |

Stop the cycle of repeated feedback. The CEDAR model (Context, Examples, Diagnosis, Actions, Review) helps leaders break the "illusion of agreement" and turn difficult performance conversations into genuine commitment.

The BOOST Feedback Model: A Modern framework for leaders

By |2026-01-11T19:23:12+00:00January 7, 2026|Categories: Feedback|Tags: , , |

Most feedback fails because of poor preparation. The BOOST model (Balanced, Observed, Objective, Specific, Timely) is your quality-control checklist to ensure every conversation builds trust rather than defensiveness.

Leadership myth: Every team needs a vision

By |2026-01-11T19:23:13+00:00December 30, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: , , , |

Most teams are told they need a vision. But many teams quietly lose trust, clarity, and meaning because of it. This article explains when vision helps, when it harms, and what teams actually need instead.

Guiding the work: Using clear methods and processes to reach useful outcomes

By |2026-01-11T19:23:14+00:00December 12, 2025|Categories: IAF core competencies for faciliitation|Tags: , , , , |

Groups rarely struggle because they lack ideas. They struggle because their thinking has no clear pathway. This article explores how facilitators guide groups using clear methods and processes, from establishing context to managing group dynamics, so that discussion leads to appropriate and useful outcomes. It offers practical insight into IAF Core Competency D1.

Why Tuckman’s team development model no longer fits 21st century teams

By |2026-01-11T19:23:14+00:00November 28, 2025|Categories: Teamwork|Tags: , , , , |

Tuckman’s team development model shaped leadership thinking for decades. But modern teams are more fluid, diverse and interdependent than the world it was built for. This article explores why the classic five stages no longer fit today’s work and introduces a contemporary five-movement pattern for leading teams through complexity.

Working in partnership: The foundation of effective facilitation

By |2026-01-11T19:23:15+00:00November 21, 2025|Categories: IAF core competencies for faciliitation|Tags: , , , |

Effective facilitation begins long before a group gathers. IAF Core Competency A1 Develop Working Partnerships, invites us to build partnerships rooted in trust, clarity, and shared responsibility. This article explores the three strands of strong working partnerships, why they matter, and what happens when they are overlooked. With reflective questions and practical guidance, it offers a steady foundation for anyone designing conversations that help people think and work well together.

Stress tolerance: how to stay steady when pressure is rising (EQ-i)

By |2026-01-11T19:23:17+00:00November 2, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|Tags: , , , , |

Stress in leadership is constant, not occasional. In the EQ-i, stress tolerance reflects the capacity to stay grounded, clear, and intentional while activation is rising. This piece explores why stress tolerance matters within the EQ-i model and introduces practical practices leaders can use before, during, and after pressure to preserve clarity, composure, and effectiveness.

How can I get my team aligned and more focused? (4DX Methodology)

By |2026-01-11T19:23:17+00:00October 31, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , , , , , |

Most teams struggle not from lack of effort but from scattered attention. The Four Disciplines of Execution (4DX) offer a simple, proven way to focus on what matters most, act with purpose, and sustain momentum through shared accountability.

Social Responsibility: How to act for the common good with integrity and care

By |2026-01-11T19:23:18+00:00October 24, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|Tags: , , , , , , , |

Social responsibility sits at the heart of emotionally intelligent leadership. This guide explores how to act with awareness of others, contribute meaningfully to teams and communities, and balance personal goals with collective good. Includes six practical exercises to strengthen empathy, fairness, and shared purpose.

Interpersonal Relationships: How to build trust and connection that endures

By |2026-01-11T19:23:19+00:00October 19, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|Tags: , , , , , , , |

Interpersonal relationships are the foundation of emotional intelligence. This EQ-i guide shows how to build trust, connection, and collaboration that endure. Through six evidence-based practices, learn how to strengthen relationships and create a culture of mutual respect and belonging.

How to make team charters work: eight shifts that build alignment and trust

By |2026-01-11T19:23:19+00:00October 18, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: , , , , |

Most teams build charters to align around purpose and values, yet the document often fades after the workshop. This guide explains practical shifts that turn team charters into living agreements that strengthen trust, clarity and collaboration.

The Circle of Control: Leadership, choice, and the discipline of attention

By |2026-01-11T19:23:20+00:00October 10, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: , , , , |

Leadership maturity begins where control ends. The Circle of Control reminds us that what defines us is not what happens, but how we meet what happens. This piece explores the mindset that turns reaction into responsibility.

How can I set boundaries with my team that create clarity and improve performance?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:21+00:00October 1, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , |

Setting boundaries is not about control but clarity. Learn how to use boundary mapping to create shared agreements that build trust and improve performance.

How do I help my team move beyond grumbling?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:21+00:00October 1, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , , , |

Grumbling is part of organisational life, but when it becomes the culture, energy drains away. This article explores five research-based pathways leaders can use to shift teams from complaint to contribution, rekindling agency, pride and possibility.

How do I lead my team through uncertainty and build resilience?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:21+00:00September 30, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , , , |

In times of uncertainty, strategy alone is not enough. Learn ten practical ways leaders can help their teams steady themselves, build resilience, and sustain trust and creativity in the face of constant change.

How do I answer tough questions under pressure without losing composure?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:21+00:00September 30, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , |

Learn how to answer tough questions under pressure with clarity and confidence. A simple five-step approach to stay calm, connect, and lead.

How can I leave work at work without feeling guilty?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:22+00:00September 26, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , , |

Leaders often ask, “How do I leave work at work?” This article explores boundaries, recovery, role transitions, autonomy, and resource management. Grounded in research and written with a reflective tone, it offers practical ways to switch off and reclaim balance without guilt.

How can I make my meetings more effective?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:22+00:00September 22, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , , |

Most meetings drain time without delivering value. Research shows up to one third are unnecessary and 35% unproductive. This article explores ten practical yet human-centred ways to make meetings meaningful, focused, and effective.

What should I do when an employee hates their job but won’t quit?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:23+00:00September 8, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , , , |

A team member dislikes their role but refuses to resign. As a leader, how do you respond? This article explores five research-based frameworks that explain why people stay unhappy in jobs and what you can do to re-engage them with meaning, trust, and choice.

How can I motivate a burned-out team?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:24+00:00September 3, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , , , , |

Burnout is at record levels in 2025, with two-thirds of employees at risk. Drawing on Maslach’s burnout framework, this guide shows leaders how to motivate burned-out teams by addressing six critical mismatches in hybrid workplaces.

How do you lead when trust has been broken?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:24+00:00September 2, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , |

When trust is broken in leadership, clarity and control rarely repair it. This article explores the psychology of trust: ability, integrity, benevolence, fairness, and psychological safety and offers practical ways leaders can rebuild confidence through convening, fairness, and community.

Why do my town halls (and webinars) fall flat?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:24+00:00September 1, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , , , , |

Town halls and webinars are efficient at spreading information but rarely build ownership. This article explores why big formats fall flat, using insights from behavioural science and group psychology. It also shows how to redesign gatherings, physical or virtual, so people co-create meaning, commit to action, and leave with a sense of shared ownership rather than passive compliance.

How can I handle a toxic but talented employee at work?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:24+00:00August 30, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , , , |

What do you do when one of your top performers is also the most toxic presence on your team? This article explores five leadership lenses that reveal the hidden costs, relational fractures, and cultural risks of tolerating toxicity, and offers practical moves to protect trust, balance results, and safeguard the future of your team

How to handle a team member who dominates meetings?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:25+00:00August 24, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , , |

When one person dominates meetings, valuable ideas are lost, engagement drops and frustration rises. This guide offers practical facilitation strategies to balance participation, engage quieter voices and create meetings that work for everyone.

How can I cultivate strong relationships in a hybrid or remote-team?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:25+00:00August 24, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , |

Hybrid work has changed how teams connect. Learn how to build trust, create equity, and design simple rituals that foster belonging in remote and hybrid teams.

How do I support mental wellbeing while maintaining performance?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:25+00:00August 23, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , , , , |

Discover how workplace wellbeing drives sustainable organisational performance. Explore behavioural, systemic, and relational strategies to prevent burnout, boost engagement, and build resilient, human-centred workplaces.

How do I get my team to turn their cameras on?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:25+00:00August 21, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , |

Many leaders struggle with cameras staying off in virtual meetings. This guide explores practical ways to build presence, trust and engagement in remote and hybrid teams rather than relying on camera rules.

How to run a Future Search: A guide to building common ground for action

By |2026-01-11T19:23:25+00:00August 16, 2025|Categories: Large group methods|Tags: , , , , , |

Discover how to run a Future Search that gathers every key voice, explores the past, creates a shared vision, and commits to action in just three days.

How to run an Appreciative Inquiry Summit: A guide to whole-system, strengths-based change

By |2026-01-11T19:23:11+00:00August 11, 2025|Categories: Large group methods|Tags: , , , , , |

An Appreciative Inquiry Summit brings the whole system together to imagine its best future and design strengths-based change. This guide explains how to run an AI Summit and turn large gatherings into spaces of shared vision and committed action.

How to run an Open Space: A guide to hosting self-organising meetings

By |2026-01-11T19:23:25+00:00August 11, 2025|Categories: Large group methods|Tags: , , , , , , |

Discover how to run an Open Space: a dynamic large-group facilitation method that hands the agenda to participants and sparks self-organising action. This practical guide explains the process, principles, hosting tips, and real-world examples so you can create events where energy, ownership, and collaboration thrive.

How to run a World Café: step-by-step guide to facilitating large-group dialogue

By |2026-01-11T19:23:25+00:00August 10, 2025|Categories: Large group methods|Tags: , , , , , |

World Café is a powerful large-group facilitation method that helps organisations and communities surface collective insight and shared ownership through meaningful conversation. This step-by-step guide shows how to host a World Café, craft powerful questions and design conversations that lead to lasting change.

Visual Hub

By |2026-01-11T19:23:27+00:00April 13, 2020|Categories: Sketchnotes, Web Resource|Tags: , , , |

This web page has been designed to hold all of the links and resources from earlier posts around graphic facilitation. If you have any resources you think I should add, please do reach out via a post below or a message via twitter / facebook or LinkedIn. You can also email me! The resources on this page are in no [...]

Virtual Facilitation – Visual prompts

By |2026-01-11T19:19:36+00:00March 20, 2020|Categories: Facilitation|Tags: , |

This week I have come across a couple of different resources which may be of interest for those involved in virtual facilitation or learning. The first are printouts that allow participants to interact through the use of the colourful cards. Head HERE to get a print out. Thanks to Deb Aoki for sharing the link to these.. The second is a [...]

Online facilitation – Tips for participants

By |2026-01-11T19:22:44+00:00March 20, 2020|Categories: Facilitation|Tags: , , , |

I am currently involved in helping a range of clients shift their facilitated meetings and training courses to online. Online facilitation can be more effective and productive if everyone is focused and making the best use of technology. Here are 10 tips I have prepared for those being a participant on a live virtual delivery session. 1. Maximise bandwidth - switch [...]

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