Writing on accountability in contexts where authority is diffuse and outcomes depend on many actors. These pieces examine how responsibility is negotiated, how expectations are made explicit, and how leaders sustain ownership and follow-through without relying on hierarchy or compliance alone.

How do I work with colleagues who avoid difficult conversations?

By |2026-01-12T13:10:44+00:00January 12, 2026|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , |

Most senior leaders do not avoid difficult conversations because they are weak. They avoid them because they are managing risk, status or energy. This article applies behavioural science to identify the 5 archetypes of avoidance and provides the specific leadership moves to handle each one.

How do I lead change when people agree in public but resist in private?

By |2026-01-11T21:19:22+00:00January 11, 2026|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , , , |

Heads nod in meetings, yet behavior stays the same. This isn't just "lack of buy-in", it's a biological safety response. Learn why false agreement happens and how to turn polite compliance into real ownership using behavioral science.

Is your leadership making the organisation stronger or making you indispensable?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:11+00:00January 10, 2026|Categories: Leadership|Tags: , , |

Most leaders believe they are building empowerment and capability. Yet over time, judgement, risk, and meaning quietly route through the strongest leaders. What looks like trust becomes dependence. The real leadership question is no longer how good you are, but how necessary you have become.

The CEDAR Feedback Model: A Framework for Difficult Conversations

By |2026-01-11T19:23:11+00:00January 7, 2026|Categories: Feedback|Tags: , , , |

Stop the cycle of repeated feedback. The CEDAR model (Context, Examples, Diagnosis, Actions, Review) helps leaders break the "illusion of agreement" and turn difficult performance conversations into genuine commitment.

How do I handle passive-aggressive behaviour at work as a leader?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:12+00:00January 4, 2026|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , |

Leaders face a hidden threat in passive-aggressive behaviour. It erodes trust, blocks collaboration, and costs organisations billions. Learn 5 evidence-based moves to stop the spiral of incivility, protect team dignity, and resolve conflict without escalation.

OpenSpace Beta – Niels Pflaeging and Silke Hermann – Book Summary

By |2026-01-11T19:23:13+00:00January 3, 2026|Categories: Complexity & Systems thinking, Leadership, Transformation|Tags: , , , , , |

OpenSpace Beta is a radical 90-day model for transforming hierarchical organisations into decentralised, self-organising teams. This practical summary explains how invitation, Open Space Technology and peer governance replace command-and-control, enabling faster decisions, stronger engagement and real ownership in complex environments.

The Complexity Leadership Library: How to lead complex adaptive systems

By |2026-01-11T19:23:13+00:00December 31, 2025|Categories: Complexity & Systems thinking, Leadership|Tags: , , , , |

Organisations behave like living systems, not machines. The Complexity Leadership Library introduces twenty-five leadership capabilities for leading complex adaptive systems under uncertainty.

Moving from conversation to commitment: Guiding groups to consensus and desired outcomes

By |2026-01-11T19:23:13+00:00December 27, 2025|Categories: IAF core competencies for faciliitation|Tags: , , , |

Groups rarely struggle because they lack ideas. They struggle because their conversations do not reliably become commitments. This article explores how facilitators guide groups to consensus and desired outcomes, from shaping agreement to fostering completion, so that discussion leads to decisions that hold. It offers practical insight into IAF Core Competency D3.

Leadership habits that stick: why resolutions fail and what to do instead

By |2026-01-11T19:23:13+00:00December 25, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: , , , |

Why do so many well-intentioned leadership resolutions fall apart by February? This article unpacks why traditional approaches to change fail and offers a design-based alternative grounded in behavioural science.

Freedom without obligation? A quieter cost

By |2026-01-11T19:23:14+00:00December 12, 2025|Categories: Citizenship, Community|Tags: , , , |

What does citizenship ask of us beyond our rights? This reflective essay explores the quiet tension between personal freedom and responsibility to engage in community, and the unnoticed cost when we enjoy the benefits of civic life without shared ownership.

Article review: Strategic leadership at high altitude: Investigating how AI affects the required skills of top managers

By |2026-01-11T19:23:14+00:00December 4, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: , , , |

Artificial intelligence is changing the nature of executive decision making and redefining what leaders contribute. This review highlights four leadership capabilities identified in new research that will help leaders navigate the growing presence of intelligent systems in their organisations.

What can I do to influence upwards more effectively before and during key meetings?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:14+00:00December 2, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , |

Influencing upwards is harder than it looks, especially when leaders shift position once the room fills. These evidence-based strategies show how to steady the ground before and during key meetings so your ideas have a better chance of taking hold.

Communicating for participation: Enabling clear, inclusive and confident group dialogue

By |2026-01-11T19:23:14+00:00November 29, 2025|Categories: IAF core competencies for faciliitation|Tags: , , , , , |

IAF Core Competency C1 invites facilitators to communicate in ways that widen participation, deepen listening and strengthen group connection. This article explores the five strands of participatory and interpersonal communication, why they matter and how they shape the quality of group work. With practical reflections, examples and practice lists, it offers a grounded guide for anyone who wants to help people speak honestly, listen fully and think well together.

Start With Why Is a Leadership Myth: What Leaders Should Do Instead

By |2026-01-11T19:23:15+00:00November 26, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: , , , |

Many leaders rely on the idea of “starting with why”, but this approach often oversimplifies how commitment forms. This article explains why purpose is not the starting point of leadership and shows how conversation, connection, and shared ownership build genuine engagement.

The leadership myth that transformation programmes save organisations

By |2026-01-11T19:23:15+00:00November 24, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: , , , , |

Many leaders still believe that a transformation programme can save an organisation, yet most large scale change efforts fail because they treat complex systems as if they can be controlled through planning. This article exposes the leadership myth at the heart of transformation, explains why organisations remain drawn to big programmes, and shows what research on complex adaptive systems reveals about how change really happens. It offers practical guidance for leaders who want to create real, sustainable transformation through learning, interaction, and shaped conditions rather than rigid roadmap

Why the leadership myth that a good plan guarantees successful change still misleads

By |2026-01-11T19:23:10+00:00November 23, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: , , , , |

Many leaders still believe that a good plan guarantees successful change. This view, inherited from a more predictable era, persists in organisations that value control and certainty. Yet research from thinkers such as Kotter, Stacey, and Snowden shows that in complex environments, outcomes emerge through adaptation, not execution. This article explores why the myth endures, the costs of over-planning, and the practices that help leaders lead through learning rather than prediction.

How can I get more accountability in my team?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:15+00:00November 18, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , |

Accountability is not something you force. It is something people choose when clarity and ownership are strong. This article introduces a simple two by two model that shows the four accountability zones and how leaders can rebuild clarity, strengthen ownership, and create a culture where people follow through because they want to.

How to craft a compelling business case: a leadership guide

By |2026-01-11T19:23:16+00:00November 17, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: , , , |

A business case is more than a technical document. It is a moment of leadership that creates clarity, builds trust, and earns genuine commitment. This guide explores practical principles for shaping a compelling business case that people believe in and want to support.

Why the leadership myth “If You Can’t Measure It, You Can’t Manage It” misses the point

By |2026-01-11T19:23:16+00:00November 14, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: , , , |

“If you can’t measure it, you can’t manage it” is one of the most persistent leadership myths. Often attributed to Peter Drucker, it distorts his thinking. This essay explores why measurement brings comfort but not always insight, and why true leadership begins where data ends.

How can I get my team aligned and more focused? (4DX Methodology)

By |2026-01-11T19:23:17+00:00October 31, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , , , , , |

Most teams struggle not from lack of effort but from scattered attention. The Four Disciplines of Execution (4DX) offer a simple, proven way to focus on what matters most, act with purpose, and sustain momentum through shared accountability.

I’m burnt out — What can I do to reclaim my energy and focus as a leader?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:17+00:00October 30, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , , , , |

Feeling drained, distracted, or disengaged? Psychologist Christina Maslach’s research shows that burnout stems from six key mismatches between people and their work: workload, control, reward, community, fairness, and values. Drawing on various studies this guide applies Maslach’s framework to leadership today, offering practical, research-based ways to restore energy, purpose, and balance before burnout takes hold.

Flexibility: Adapting your emotions, thinking and behaviour to changing realities (EQ-i)

By |2026-01-11T19:23:17+00:00October 29, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|Tags: , , , , |

Emotional flexibility is the ability to adapt your thinking, emotions and behaviour while staying grounded. This guide offers practical exercises to stay calm under change, shift perspective and grow through uncertainty.

Impulse control: Managing reactions under pressure (EQ-i)

By |2026-01-11T19:23:18+00:00October 28, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|Tags: , , , , , , |

Impulse control is the capacity to stay calm and deliberate under stress. This page explores how leaders can pause before reacting, reframe urgency, and create rituals that reset emotional control after mistakes.

Reality testing: How to see clearly and decide wisely

By |2026-01-11T19:23:18+00:00October 28, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|Tags: , , , , , |

In the noise of modern leadership, it is easy to mistake confidence for clarity. The faster decisions are made, the more tempting it becomes to rely on instinct, assumption, or emotion rather than evidence. Reality testing is the emotional intelligence skill that keeps perception honest. It is the disciplined capacity to see situations as they are, not as you hope [...]

Problem solving: How to think clearly and act wisely under pressure

By |2026-01-11T19:23:18+00:00October 27, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|Tags: , , , , , , |

Learn how to strengthen your problem-solving skills through six emotionally intelligent practices. Discover how to balance logic and emotion, make clear decisions under pressure, and turn complex challenges into opportunities for learning and trust.

Empathy: How to understand others and strengthen connection

By |2026-01-11T19:23:18+00:00October 24, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|Tags: , , , , , , |

Empathy is the foundation of trust and understanding. This guide explores how to strengthen your capacity to recognise and respond to others’ emotions with care and accuracy. Includes six practical exercises to cultivate empathy in daily interactions.

Social Responsibility: How to act for the common good with integrity and care

By |2026-01-11T19:23:18+00:00October 24, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|Tags: , , , , , , , |

Social responsibility sits at the heart of emotionally intelligent leadership. This guide explores how to act with awareness of others, contribute meaningfully to teams and communities, and balance personal goals with collective good. Includes six practical exercises to strengthen empathy, fairness, and shared purpose.

Interpersonal Relationships: How to build trust and connection that endures

By |2026-01-11T19:23:19+00:00October 19, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|Tags: , , , , , , , |

Interpersonal relationships are the foundation of emotional intelligence. This EQ-i guide shows how to build trust, connection, and collaboration that endure. Through six evidence-based practices, learn how to strengthen relationships and create a culture of mutual respect and belonging.

How can I get better as a leader at receiving feedback? (RADAR process)

By |2026-01-11T19:23:19+00:00October 19, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , |

Receiving feedback is one of the hardest skills for any leader to master. As an executive coach, I’ve seen how defensiveness can block growth and trust. The RADAR process: Repeat, Ask, Discuss, Align, Reflect, offers a practical way to stay open, calm, and constructive. This article explores how each step transforms feedback from criticism into connection, helping leaders build stronger relationships, deepen self-awareness, and turn difficult conversations into opportunities for real progress.

How to make team charters work: eight shifts that build alignment and trust

By |2026-01-11T19:23:19+00:00October 18, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: , , , , |

Most teams build charters to align around purpose and values, yet the document often fades after the workshop. This guide explains practical shifts that turn team charters into living agreements that strengthen trust, clarity and collaboration.

How do I lead when people lack confidence?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:19+00:00October 16, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , , |

Confidence does not appear on command; it grows from evidence, belonging, and rhythm. When people doubt their capability, leaders can help them rebuild belief through intentional design. This piece explores six practices grounded in behavioural science and everyday leadership experience. A practical, human answer to the question: How do I lead when people lack confidence?

The Circle of Control: Leadership, choice, and the discipline of attention

By |2026-01-11T19:23:20+00:00October 10, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: , , , , |

Leadership maturity begins where control ends. The Circle of Control reminds us that what defines us is not what happens, but how we meet what happens. This piece explores the mindset that turns reaction into responsibility.

The paradox of performance: Why senior leaders need space, not speed

By |2026-01-11T19:23:20+00:00October 8, 2025|Categories: Executive Coaching|Tags: , , , |

In today’s leadership culture, speed often masquerades as competence. This article explores why constant urgency narrows judgement and how senior leaders can restore reflection, clarity and performance through simple disciplines, including executive coaching. Slowing down may be the most strategic move a leader can make.

E + R = O: The leadership mindset that separates reaction from response

By |2026-01-11T19:23:20+00:00October 8, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: , , , |

Discover how great leaders use the E + R = O formula: Event plus Response equals Outcome, to stay composed, intentional, and effective under pressure. Learn practical ways to lead with awareness, shape outcomes through choice, and build a culture of conscious leadership grounded in self-awareness and reflection.

How can I find more meaning in my leadership role? (The practice of job crafting)

By |2026-01-11T19:23:20+00:00October 7, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , , , |

Many leaders reach a point where their work feels effective but empty. This article explores how job crafting helps leaders rediscover purpose by reshaping what they do, who they connect with, and how they interpret their work, drawing on research from Wrzesniewski and Dutton, Gallup, McKinsey, and Deloitte.

What is executive coaching and how can it help senior leaders?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:20+00:00October 6, 2025|Categories: Executive Coaching|Tags: , , , |

Executive coaching gives senior leaders a confidential space to think, challenge assumptions, and act with greater clarity. This article explores how coaching helps leaders navigate complexity, improve decision quality, strengthen resilience, and align culture and strategy for lasting impact.

Why the Five Dysfunctions of a Team fail and what works better

By |2026-01-11T19:23:20+00:00October 6, 2025|Categories: Leadership|Tags: , , , , |

Patrick Lencioni’s Five Dysfunctions of a Team is one of the most popular leadership models today. Its simplicity and storytelling make it appealing, yet it misses how real teams grow. This article explores why the model falls short and introduces a more human, sustainable alternative: the Living Cycle of Team Effectiveness, built around Safety, Dialogue, Clarity, Accountability, and Learning to create lasting team performance.

How can I create real clarity in my team? (Clarity Canvas)

By |2026-01-11T19:23:20+00:00October 4, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , |

Most teams don’t fail for lack of effort but for lack of clarity. The Clarity Canvas helps you move from vague expectations to shared commitments, turning accountability into partnership. Learn how to create clarity without control and build a team that knows what “good” looks like.

Independence: How to trust your own judgement and act with confidence

By |2026-01-11T19:23:20+00:00October 3, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|Tags: , , , , |

We live in cultures that prize collaboration and connection. In workplaces, “team player” is often the highest compliment, while in families and communities, loyalty and togetherness are praised as the ultimate virtues. Yet beneath this emphasis on belonging lies a quieter challenge: the ability to act independently, to make decisions without leaning too heavily on approval, advice, or reassurance. In [...]

Assertiveness: How to voice needs with respect and clarity

By |2026-01-11T19:23:21+00:00October 3, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|Tags: , , , , , , |

Assertiveness sits between silence and aggression. It is the practice of voicing your needs with clarity while respecting others. This article explores why assertiveness matters for resilience, decisions, and relationships and introduces eight practices to help you build confidence, set boundaries, and engage in honest dialogue

How do I help my team move beyond grumbling?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:21+00:00October 1, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , , , |

Grumbling is part of organisational life, but when it becomes the culture, energy drains away. This article explores five research-based pathways leaders can use to shift teams from complaint to contribution, rekindling agency, pride and possibility.

Emotional expression: How to communicate feelings with clarity

By |2026-01-11T19:23:21+00:00October 1, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|Tags: , , , , , |

Emotional expression helps us connect, decide, and lead with clarity, yet many find it difficult. Discover why it matters and how to voice feelings with confidence and authenticity.

Self-Actualisation: How to live into your potential with emotional intelligence

By |2026-01-11T19:23:21+00:00September 29, 2025|Categories: Emotional Intelligence|Tags: , , , , |

Self-actualisation is more than achievement, it is the lifelong pursuit of meaningful goals that reflect your values, strengths, and potential. This article explores why self-actualisation matters and offers eight practical exercises to help you align daily choices with long-term purpose.

How can I identify my leadership strengths? (VIA Character Strengths)

By |2026-01-11T19:23:21+00:00September 28, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , , |

How can I identify my leadership strengths? This article explores strengths-based leadership through VIA Character Strengths. Discover all 24 VIA strengths explained in depth, plus ten practical ways to bring strengths into business leadership.

How can I say no at work without damaging relationships?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:22+00:00September 24, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , , , |

Saying no at work is not easy. Many of us keep saying yes out of habit or fear, but it leads to stress, burnout, and strained relationships. This post explores how to say no at work without damaging trust or respect, using a simple rhythm: acknowledge • pause • respond.

How can I spend less time in meetings and make better decisions?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:22+00:00September 24, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , , |

Tired of endless meetings? Learn how to reclaim time by distinguishing between one way and two way door decisions, empowering people, and making meetings matter again.

How can I know which decisions to make alone and which to share?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:22+00:00September 22, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , |

The Waterline Principle helps leaders and teams decide when to act alone and when to consult. It offers a shared language for risk and responsibility, anchored in three questions: the upside, the downside, and whether you can truly live with the loss.

How can I make my meetings more effective?

By |2026-01-11T19:23:22+00:00September 22, 2025|Categories: Leadership questions|Tags: , , , , |

Most meetings drain time without delivering value. Research shows up to one third are unnecessary and 35% unproductive. This article explores ten practical yet human-centred ways to make meetings meaningful, focused, and effective.

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